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Thursday, October 1, 2026

Life Worth Living. Winner at the Niagara International Film Festival.


Alex Schadenberg
Executive Director, Euthanasia Prevention Coalition


I was talking with Frank Panico, who filmed and edited the Life Worth Living film, about the film festivals that we entered the Life Worth Living film. While going through the list we noticed that Life Worth Living was considered in several film festivals, it was screened in a few festivals and it won at the Niagara International Film Festival in June 2026.

This was a significant achievement and I wish we had known this earlier.

The Life Worth Living film was also a finalist at the Remember the Future World Film Festival in Cannes France.

You should screen the Life Worth Living film in your community. You can help change hearts and minds by screening the award winning Life Worth Living film. 

Purchase or rent the Life Worth Living film from the Euthanasia Prevention Coalition at: https://lifeworthlivingfilm.com

Watch the Life Worth Living film trailer:

Reviews we received of the film:
I just watched Life Worth Living and I have to say I'm so incredibly impressed. I can't contain my enthusiasm for this film. It's one of the best film projects on the subject of medical killing ever. I'd expect awards to be forthcoming for best documentary film. Lester.
Another review:
I have purchased the film "Life Worth Living" a couple of weeks ago and have watched it. I feel that it's a film that everyone should watch because it shows what is happening in the system of "health" care in Canada and it opens our eyes to the reality of how far our government and the medical system has gone in the direction of killing people instead of healing people.

I would like to ask permission to show this film for our parish community
. Eva
The Euthanasia Prevention Coalition granted Eva permission to have the film shown in her community. Please arrange screenings of the film.
 
Life Worth Living features:
  • Alicia Duncan, whose mother died by euthanasia with conditions based on mental health, 
  • Kelsi Sheren, a Canadian military veteran who came back from combat with PTSD and other disabilities. Kelsi is a social media influencer and a life coach.
  • Roger Foley, a Canadian man living with a significant disability who has been pressured by hospital staff to request euthanasia.
  • Dr David D'Souza, an Ontario chronic pain specialist.
  • Dr Catherine Ferrier, a Quebec Gerontologist and a leader of Physicians' Alliance against Euthanasia, 
  • Dr Will Johnston, a Vancouver family physician and leader of Euthanasia Resistance BC
  • Kathy Matusiak Costa, Executive Director of Compassionate Community Care,
  • Alex Schadenberg, (myself), author, keynote speaker, International leader opposing euthanasia and assisted suicide.
The Euthanasia Prevention Coalition needs your help.
  1. Purchase the Life Worth Living Film (Life Worth Living film Link)
  2. Arrange to have Life Worth Living shown in your community. Contact us at: info@epcc.ca
  3. You may want a speaker at the event to lead a discussion. Contact us at: info@epcc.ca

Wednesday, September 23, 2026

Yes, Brigitte's story about GG being killed by euthanasia is true.

Brigitte Stegemann did not answer the competency questions and the assessor declared her competent anyway.

Alex Schadenberg
Executive Director, 
Euthanasia Prevention Coalition


On September 20, the Daily Mail published an article by Imogen Garfinkel titled: Our 83-year-old Christian grandmother was euthanized against her will under Canada's assisted dying system.

A lot of people are stating, online, that the story is not true. I have an issue with the title of the article and the claim that the Daily Mail had an exclusive interview, but I can assure you that the story is true.

On July 22, I spoke to Brigitte Kranendonk and then published the article: My Family's Experience with Medical Assistance in Dying. My article reposted with permission the facebook post that Kranendonk posted on her facebook page.

On July 22, Kelsi Sheren spoke with Brigitte Kranendonk and on July 27 published the article: The Last 10 days of Brigitte (GG) Stegemann. On August 17, Kelsi Sheren followed up with another article: The Family filed. Here's the name. Dr Kate Koester.

Terry O'Neill spoke to Brigitte Kranendonk and on July 29 published the article: National MAiD watchdog needed as Provincial oversight failures mount.

Clearly, the Daily Mail story was not an exclusive.

On July 22, I summed up the story with the following key takeaways.
  • Brigitte Stegemann (GG) originally explicitely stated that she didn't want MAiD.
  • The medical team had her ask for MAiD when her granddaughter, Brigitte Kranendonk, the legal power of attorney, was on vacation.
  • GG was approved even though she was unable to answer the competency questions and she also had serious hearing issues making it hard for her to understand questions.
  • The staff filled out the euthanasia forms and witnessesed the signature.
The issues were explained in the original facebook post stating:
This is our family's account of the systemic failures, lack of transparency, and profound procedural violations we witnessed during the final days of our beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, Brigitte Stegemann, whom we lovingly called "GG."

We are sharing our story because what happened in GG's case was a severe breach of medical ethics, informed consent, and basic human dignity. Decisions of this magnitude demand absolute transparency, strict adherence to legal safeguards, and the meaningful involvement of designated family advocates. In GG’s case, the system failed on every single one of these fronts.

Everything that follows is a truthful account of how the care home and the attending physician systematically bypassed our family, ignored our legal standing, and pushed forward with ending GG's life against her previously stated wishes.
The Euthanasia Prevention Coalition opposes killing all people. All euthanasia (MAiD) deaths contravene medical ethics and are inhumane in their very nature.

The key issue in law that was contravened in the killing of Brigitte Stegemann was her competency. GG could not answer the questions in the competency test but for some reason the doctor declared her competent anyway.

The original facebook post explained what happened:
What followed was a deeply alarming farce. Because of GG's severe hearing impairment, Dr. K had to repeat her questions several times, but the barrier was far more than physical hearing. Throughout the assessment, GG repeatedly provided objectively incorrect answers to basic, factual questions about her own life and immediate family.

When asked if she had any siblings, GG responded that she had none. The family immediately corrected the record, explaining that GG was the second-youngest of fourteen children. Dr. K then asked if any of her siblings were still alive, and GG again answered no. Once more, the family had to intervene and correct the information, explaining that some of her siblings were still living and that GG had spoken to one of them just the previous week. At this point, GG became completely disoriented and distressed. She began to cry, stating, "I forgot about the grandkids," visibly confusing her living siblings with her great-grandkids.

In fact, the family had to step in and correct the vast majority of the answers GG gave during the questioning. Brigitte explicitly objected to the evaluation right then and there, questioning Dr. K directly on how GG could possibly be deemed to have the capacity to consent to death when she could not accurately recount the most basic facts of her own family and was actively breaking down in confusion.

Despite these clear, undeniable indicators of cognitive disorientation and the family's direct objections, the assessment carried forward anyway.

Dr. K then explained MAID to GG in specific terms, describing it, to the best of our recollection, as receiving medication, feeling peace, falling asleep, and explicitly promising GG that she "would not lose control of her bowels." Our family was deeply unsettled by this framing. For an elderly individual of GG's demographic background and cognitive capacity, "medication" was a term conceptually linked entirely to healing, care, and relief. Describing a lethal injection as merely receiving medication—while focusing intensely on her specific, everyday fears of physical indignity—exploited her vulnerability, making it impossible for her to truly grasp that she was consenting to the active termination of her life. Before any further discussion took place, Dr. K instructed all family members to leave the room. Brigitte requested permission to remain, citing her role as long-time advocate and legal Power of Attorney. Her request was flatly denied, and the critical conversation between Dr. K and GG occurred entirely in private.

When Dr. K emerged from the room, she addressed the family and stated flatly, "I have deemed her capable of making her own decisions." She then informed us that GG had consented to proceed and that the procedure was scheduled for Friday, July 10, 2026.
When reading through this account it is clear that Brigitte Stegemann was not competent to request (MAiD) euthanasia and yet was deemed competent anyway. This contravened the law and medical ethics.

There is another issue from the facebook post, that being how euthanasia was described. The killing doctors intentionally avoid the truth, that is, we will kill you in this manner. GG was told that she would be:
receiving medication, feeling peace, falling asleep, and explicitly promising GG that she "would not lose control of her bowels."
I'm all in also until you tell me that it would kill me.

As stated earlier, Kelsi Sheren also spoke to Brigitte Kranendonk on July 22 and published her article on July 27 about the last 10 days of GG's life. 
What the law demands, and what the records must now show.

Strip the anguish out of this account and a set of narrow, documentary questions remains. Each has a paper answer.

Capacity, the Criminal Code requires that a person be capable with respect to decisions about their health at the time of assessment. The family describes a woman with a lifelong, un assessed cognitive impairment, profoundly deaf, freshly emerged from days of unresponsiveness her medication records cannot explain, who failed the factual questions of her own assessment so comprehensively that her family corrected the majority of her answers, and who, the following day, did not understand that “MAiD on Friday” meant she would die. Dr. K’s assessment notes, the MAR log, and the timeline will either withstand that account or they will not.

The request, when was the written request actually signed, who witnessed it, and was the signing before or after the procedure was scheduled? The family says after, completed by the facility’s own manager and witnessed by its staff, in secret. The dated documents will settle it.

Final consent, the code requires that immediately before administering MAiD, the practitioner give the person an opportunity to withdraw and ensure their express consent unless a written waiver of final consent was executed in advance, under the 2021 provision known as Audrey’s Amendment, while the person had capacity. The family was promised express final consent would be required; none was given. That leaves two possibilities and only two. Either the procedure was carried out without the final consent the law demands or a waiver exists that no one ever mentioned to the family, including while assuring them of the very safeguard it would nullify, signed at some point by a woman whose capacity is the central dispute of this case. Produce the waiver. Its date, its witness, and the capacity notes from the day it was signed.

The second assessment. The law requires two independent eligibility assessments. The family’s public account describes one. Who performed the other, when, and in what condition was GG at the time?
Sheren is absolutely correct, the issue of capacity to consent is central to this killing. Sheren also emphasizes the issue of the paperwork, which was also brought up by the original facebook posting and the Daily Mail article.

Sheren explains the issue of final consent. Kelsi is correct when she says that the law was changed in 2021 (Bill C-7) where the law now states that final consent is not necessary so long as the person was capable of consenting at the time of assessment. Sheren explains that the family was told that their grandmother would have the opportunity to say no at the time of the killing, but Brigitte Stegemann did not provide final consent. Sheren states that a waiver of consent is necessary and should exist. There may be no waiver of consent.

Nonetheless, Brigitte Kranendonk witnessed the assessment for capacity and clearly stated that her grandmother (GG) did not answer the capacity questions correctly and was falsely declared competent anyway. This is the primary issue.

Once again, this article concerns the legal parameters not the moral parameters around killing.

The final issue that people are missing when they attack this story is the relationship between Brigitte Kranendonk and her grandmother Brigitte Stegemann.

A very close relationship
The original facebook posting stated:
GG was the mother of two children, Fritz and Karin. For more than twelve years, her granddaughter, Brigitte (who shares her name), devoted herself to GG's care and advocacy. Brigitte held legal Power of Attorney (POA) and served as the primary contact for all medical and personal care decisions.

Throughout her stay, Brigitte was contacted frequently by the home—often every day or every other day—to make decisions regarding GG's care. Whether the matter involved medications, treatments, appointments, or other aspects of daily living, the staff consistently relied on Brigitte to make or assist with important decisions on GG's behalf.
Brigitte Stegemann was not just a grandmother, nor was it simply a legal relationship as Kranendonk was her Power of Attorney, this was a deep, caring family relationship.

The key take-away.

    1.Two months before her death, the issue of (MAiD) was brought up and Brigitte Stegemann stated:
As a devout Christian, she explicitly expressed that MAID conflicted with her personal beliefs and faith.

    2. The issue of euthanasia resurfaced when Brigitte Kranendonk was on a 10-day vacation.

    3. Brigitte Stegemann could not answer the questions correctly during the capacity assessment but was declared capable of consenting anyway.

    4. Brigitte Stegemann did not provide a final consent before being killed. Was there a waiver of consent?

    5. A final issue was how the euthanasia death by botched. The Daily Mail article states:
The nurse struggled to insert the IV into Stegemann's right arm, and ended up piercing her repeatedly with the needle before attempting her left arm.

Kranendonk remembers in graphic detail the copious amount of blood, which made the whole procedure feel strangely unprofessional.

'She's asking us to hand her things, to flush out the needle. So we're now a part of this. She's asking us to grab things for her, and to hold things for her.

'This nurse is not wearing gloves. There's blood all over her hands, there's blood all over the place,' she says, horrified by the memory.
My problem with the Daily Mail article was the title: Our 83-year-old Christian grandmother was euthanized against her will under Canada's assisted dying system.

The killing was possibly against her will but the real issue was that Brigitte Stegemann answered the questions, in her capacity assessment wrong and was for some reason declared competent anyway.

All euthanasia (MAiD) is killing, or as Gordon Friesen would accurately state - medical homicide. Brigitte Stegemann was approved even though she was likely incompetent to request it and her previous response, while competent, was that it contravened her religious beliefs. Her earlier comments should have been respected.

Monday, September 21, 2026

EXCLUSIVE - A man fell in his living room on Vancouver Island. Twelve days later he was killed by MAID.

This article was published by Kelsi Sheren on her Substack on September 20, 2026.

By Kelsi Sheren

EXCLUSIVE interview given to The Kelsi Sheren Perspective by Lori Bauman.

Twelve Days and Shawn was Dead. A man fell in his living room on Vancouver Island. Twelve days later he was dead by MAID. His family still can’t get his medical records.

On May 9, 2025, Shawn Bauman fell at home on Vancouver Island. He was 55 years old. On May 21, 2025, he was euthanized.

Twelve days.

He was not terminally ill. He had already survived cancer, he had already survived heart surgery. His ex-wife — the mother of his two daughters — says there was nothing to indicate the end was near. He was a heavy drinker and he was not in the best of health. That is a different thing than dying.

This is her account. She wrote it out herself, and she has given it to me. I am reporting what the family says happened and what the record shows. Where I could not confirm something, I say so.

What the family says happened below:

Shawn hurt his ribs in the fall. Paramedics came. He was admitted to emergency, X-rayed, and told it was bruising — no fractures, no dislocations. He was discharged.

He went back the same day. Trembling. Sweating. Pain at the base of his neck radiating across his shoulders. A CT scan of the cervical spine found a compression fracture at T3. No spinal cord compression. No neurological compromise. A neurosurgeon was consulted and determined surgery was not required.

He was sent home with acetaminophen, ibuprofen, ketorolac, hydromorphone, diazepam, cyclobenzaprine and furosemide.

The next day, May 10, his legs gave out. He was adjusting himself on the couch when he lost all movement and all sensation in both legs, completely and at once. He lay there for two hours, unable to move, waiting for his roommate to come home and call an ambulance.

When Shawn had new scans done, they found what the first ones had not: a large epidural hematoma — a collection of blood around the spinal cord — running from T4 to T11.

An emergency physician on the Island got Vancouver General Hospital’s spine service on the phone and told them this man needed specialized spinal surgery. Vancouver General accepted him for emergency transfer to relieve the spinal compression.

Then he crossed the water, and the family says the lights went out. They were never given a report. During his entire stay they never spoke to a single member of his medical team. What they know, they know from two of his friends. When his daughter reached him directly, he told her he was too drugged up to talk.

The emergency surgery he was transferred to was going to take place at Vancouver General, as far as the family knows, never performed. Nobody has told them why.

One of his friends told them MAID had come up. His ex-wife told her daughter not to worry about it. She had read the law. He wasn’t terminal, and there was a process, and a ninety-day assessment.

On the evening of May 20, his daughter got a call from her father. It was scheduled for the next morning. That quick and that simple. A friend set up a conference call the following morning, shortly before it happened. He was personable, he kept it light and he was proud of himself for agreeing to donate his eyes, and for agreeing to have his brain hooked up and monitored while the procedure was carried out. He called it his last little contribution to society.

Let me be clear about which half of that matters. Organ donation after euthanasia is settled practice in this country. Canadian Blood Services wrote the policy in 2019 and hundreds of Canadians have done it.

Shawn giving his eyes is not the part that should stop you. The brain is. Recording a man’s brain while he is being killed is not donation — donation happens after death, and this happened during. A living man, wired to a machine, producing data while the injection went into his arm. That is research on a human subject, and research on human subjects in Canada requires a written protocol, a research ethics board, an approval number, and the informed consent of someone competent to give it. So a file exists. It has to.

Somewhere in Vancouver there is a protocol with a number on it and a consent form with a signature on it, dated inside the eleven days between the afternoon this man lost the use of his legs and the morning he died — signed by a man who told his own daughter he was too drugged up to hold a conversation. I have asked for it.

His family were in shock. His ex-wife says she wanted to shout *don’t do it.* She didn’t. What do you say to someone who is about to have his life taken from him?

They were offered the chance to stay on the phone while it happened. They said no. She did not want that to be the last memory her daughters had of their father.

This is where the family’s account stops being a private grief and becomes a public question.

Canada runs two tracks.

**Track 2** is for people whose natural death is *not* reasonably foreseeable. It requires a minimum of ninety clear days between the start of the first assessment and the lethal injection. It requires a second assessor with expertise in the condition causing the suffering. It requires that the person be informed about — and give serious consideration to — counselling, mental health supports, disability supports, community services and palliative care.

Ninety days. That is what his ex-wife had read. That is why she told her daughter it wasn’t going to happen.

**Track 1** is for people whose natural death *is* reasonably foreseeable. There is no minimum waiting period. Parliament deleted the ten-day reflection period in March 2021. Track 1 also permits a written waiver of final consent, which allows a practitioner to proceed without the person confirming, at the moment of death, that they still want to die.

Twelve days from a fall in the living room to a lethal injection is not possible on Track 2 — unless the ninety days was shortened, which the law permits only when the person is about to lose the capacity to make health care decisions and both assessments are already complete.

So one of two things happened. Either Shawn was assessed as Track 1, or he was assessed as Track 2 and the clock was cut short because someone determined he was about to lose capacity.

Both roads run through the same finding: that this man’s natural death was reasonably foreseeable. Eleven days after Vancouver General Hospital accepted him for emergency surgery to relieve the compression on his spine.

I want to be careful here. It is possible for a clinician to reach that finding lawfully. A man with a serious spinal cord injury, a history of cancer and heart surgery, and heavy alcohol use is not a man in perfect health, and I am not a physician. But somebody made that call, and somebody signed it, and the family has never been shown a single page of it. This is what they do, they have a pattern of not alerting the families before this happens.

That is not a medical question, that is simply a records question.

His daughter made a formal request for her father’s medical records. Vancouver General’s response, as the family provided it to me, acknowledged that she may be considered an appropriate person to act on behalf of the deceased — and then refused her, on the grounds that her access was sought for her own personal reasons rather than on behalf of the deceased.

“You are the right person to ask. You are asking for the wrong reason.”

The reason was that her father died and she wants to know how. A coroner opened an investigation. Fifteen months later the family has still not received a report.

Here is the part that most people won’t catch. Since November 2018, a MAiD death in British Columbia is only reportable to the BC Coroners Service in narrow circumstances — including where the underlying condition that led to the request relates to an accident, violence, or self-inflicted injury. Shawn’s condition started with a fall.

Which means the province’s own reporting rules classified the chain of events that ended his life as beginning with an accident. Not a terminal disease. An accident. In his living room. Twelve days earlier. The care he received on the Island is separately being reported through Island Health’s Patient Care Quality Office.

The questions I have put these to Island Health, Vancouver Coastal Health, and the BC Coroners Service. Lori has also reported this to the Ombudsman. A deadline for comment was given and no response was issued on the following.

1. Was the emergency spinal surgery Shawn was transferred to Vancouver General to receive ever performed? If not, why not, and who decided?

2. Was he assessed under Track 1 or Track 2?

3. If Track 1, on what basis was his natural death determined to be reasonably foreseeable, eleven days after he was accepted for emergency surgical intervention?

4. If Track 2, was the ninety-day period shortened on the basis of imminent loss of capacity — and if so, how was capacity to consent to death assessed in a man who told his own daughter he was too drugged up to talk?

5. Was a waiver of final consent signed?

6. Who raised MAiD first — Shawn, or a member of staff?

7. Under what research protocol, with what ethics approval and what consent documentation, was his brain monitored during the provision?

8. Why has an adult daughter, acknowledged in writing as an appropriate person, been refused her father’s records?

I’m not telling you Shawn was murdered. I don’t know that, and neither does his family, and anyone who tells you otherwise is guessing.

I’m telling you a man fell down in his living room and was dead of a needle inside two weeks, that the surgery meant to save him appears never to have happened, that nobody will explain why, and that his daughters have been locked out of the paperwork by the same institutions that hold every answer.

A system that was doing nothing wrong would hand over the file.

An 83-year old incompetent grandma was killed by euthanasia.

Alex Schadenberg
Executive Director, Euthanasia Prevention Coalition


On July 22, I published an article titled: My Family's Experience with Medical Assistance in Dying. 

On July 27, Kelsi Sheren published an article titled: The Last 10 days of Brigitte (GG) Stegemann.

On September 20, the Daily Mail published an article by Imogen Garfinkel titled: Our 83-year-old Christian grandmother was euthanized against her will under Canada's assisted dying system.

Garfinkel's article is based Brigitte Stegemann (83), who was killed by euthanasia and whose family are now challenging Canada's euthanasia system that approved and then killed their grandmother. Garfinkel writes:

Two days before her Christian grandmother’s assisted dying procedure in Ontario, Canada, Brigitte Kranendonk sat her down to make sure she knew exactly what was going to happen.

‘I used very frank terms. I said: “Do you know that you’re going to die on Friday?”'

The 83-year-old was in visible disbelief and began crying for 45 minutes. ‘I’ve made a mistake,’ Brigitte Stegemann, known affectionately to her family as ‘GG’ or ‘Oma’, wailed.

‘She was bawling. Inconsolable,’ Kranendonk, a real estate agent who shares the same first name with her late grandmother, tells the Daily Mail.
Brigitte Kranendonk, who was named after her grandmother explained to Garfinkel that even though her grandmother got every question wrong during a cognitive test, she was declared competent for the purpose of being killed. Garfinkel reports:
Yet 48 hours after she wept uncontrollably at the notion of MAiD, Stegemann is said to have died with her hands clasped in prayer, covered in her own blood due to a botched first attempt at connecting the IV, administered by a nurse allegedly not wearing gloves.
Brigitte is searching for answers and change. Garfinkel reports:

Kranendonk is currently in the process of desperately appealing to the Chief Coroner’s Office in Ontario, as well as the Patient Ombudsman and Belleville Police, in a bid to ascertain whether what happened the morning of July 10 at The Pearl care home in Cannifton was legal.

Bereaved and distraught, she claims MAiD practitioners took advantage of her grandmother’s vulnerability to perform the procedure, which she alleges was carried out without express consent.

‘She was a vulnerable human being, and they saw an opportunity,’ Kranendonk says, her rage and sadness visible.

Kranendonk suspects the MAiD practitioners were inappropriately ideologically motivated, and believes the chain of events leading up to the procedure should be investigated.
Kranendonk's is absolutely right about the ideological motivations of the MAiD practitioners. My experience with other families who are dealing with euthanasia decisions or grieving from a euthanasia death is that they speak about how the "MAiD team" convinced their loved one to agree to be killed. They use sales techniques to sell the killing as beautiful and peaceful while saying that the alternative will be a painful and horrific death.

Kranendonk suggests that her grandmother's euthanasia was the first one at “The Pearl, long-term care facility, formally known as EJ Mcquigge Lodge” in Belleville, Ontario and it is suggested that they just didn't know what they were doing.

But this was not the first killing for the euthanasia team. Nonetheless, Kranendonk describes how her grandmothers death was not peaceful and dignified. Garfinkel reports:
The moment of Stegemann's death was anything but peaceful, as she had once wished.

Recalling those nightmarish minutes, a traumatised Kranendonk speaks in the present tense, as if the procedure was still happening in slow motion.

'There was a phenomenal amount of blood,' she says, describing the way that the nurse failed to find the correct vein in the right arm to insert the IV, before switching to the left – but only after having 'poked her about three or four times with the needle'.

'It is all over my Oma's arm, it is all over her nightie, soaking through her pillow, all over the sheets, there is so much blood.

'And throughout all this time, mind you, the nurse is not wearing gloves.'
In case some of the readers are euthanasia lobby activists and think, it was her choice, you need to know that Kranendonk was not just a grandchild. Garfinkel explains:
Prior to Stegemann’s death that summer, Kranendonk had been her caregiver for 12 years, and her medical power of attorney for the past six.

A year and a half before her death, the family made the decision to house Stegemann in The Pearl as her physical and cognitive health began to deteriorate.

In February, she was diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer. But doctors were not certain about whether the diagnosis meant she had six months to live, or as much time as two years.

For the past decade, Kranendonk had been carefully monitoring what her grandmother ate to keep her healthy, including limiting her sugar intake.

Following the cancer diagnosis, she changed tack and allowed her to eat whatever she craved, deciding she just wanted her grandmother to feel as ‘joyful’ as possible in her final stage of life.
Kranendonk had cared for her grandmother for 12 years and was her power of attorney for her for 6 years. Also, Kranendonk explains that her grandmother had previously said no to MAiD based on: 
her religiosity, and the notion of displeasing God, was a large factor in why her German-born grandmother instinctively opposed assisted dying.
It wasn't until Kranendonk, went on a 10-day road trip that everything changed. Garfinkel reports:
Everything seemed normal. She picked up numerous phone calls, and the doctors didn't discuss a dramatic decline in Stegemann’s health – only that she had fallen over and would need a wheelchair.

But towards the end of the trip, on July 3, Kranendonk received a different kind of call. It was from the home, saying they were going to book a MAiD assessment for her grandmother.

When she returned she learned that her grandmother had already had her first euthanasia assessment. When she asked a nurse who had introduced the topic of euthanasia the nurse responded:

‘The nurse became very abrasive, very defensive,' Kranendonk recalls. 'She was like, "Well, I’m just trying to advocate for her. I’m just trying to do what’s right for her."'
Kranendonk felt that the nurse was pushing death. Garfinkel reported her as stating:
'I truly believe that one nurse really saw us as an obstacle,' she says. 'We were getting in the way of her doing MAiD on my grandmother. I think she really, truly believes that MAiD is the best for people, and shame on me for trying to stop that.'
Selling death.

The law requires that a person who asks to die must clearly request, be informed and be competent. Kranendonk explains how none of this was true:

Kranendonk made sure she was in the room for the second MAiD assessment, and it was there where she noticed the doctor speak in ‘really loose terms, never using the words death or dying’.

‘She explains MAiD to my grandmother by saying: “We’re going to give you medicine, you’re going to feel at peace. And I just want you to know that you won’t have a bowel movement.”'

‘She’s saying it in these strange terms, that aren’t literal,’ Kranendonk says, adding: ‘My Oma’s just kind of nodding. Her first language is not English, she is 83-years old and severely hearing-impaired.’

Kranendonk looked at the doctor, and said: 'She doesn’t understand what you’re saying.'

That’s when the doctor allegedly turned to the grandmother, and offered: ‘We’re going to make sure you won’t have any more pain.’

During the cognitive assessment, which she also sat in on, Kranendonk claims that the questions were curiously designed, in that the doctor couldn’t immediately verify the answers.

As opposed to questions such as who the prime minister was, or that day's date, the grandmother was asked personal questions, like how many siblings she had.

‘But none of that is in her records. They would not know if the information was correct, or not,’ Kranendonk says.

Even so, Stegemann got the answers wrong.

She said she had no siblings, despite having 13.

The doctor asked how many were still alive, and Stegemann answered, saying none.

But two are still alive, and the grandmother had seen one only a month and a half before.

‘So we're going through this assessment. None of the answers could be proven, unless I was there. 

Kranendonk was then asked to leave the room, during the assessment. She was sure that her grandmother had failed the cognitive test

But four minutes after the cognitive test was complete, the doctor announced that Stegemann was 'deemed fit for MAiD, and we're going to proceed'.
Kranendonk was assured that her mother could change her mind at any time.

Pushing death. Garfinkel reports:
On Wednesday, Kranendonk woke up after barely sleeping and prepared to visit her grandmother.

But before she had a chance to enter the home, she got a call from the nurse, who said they planned to fast-track her grandmother's death to Thursday – simply because the doctor had an early opening.

'I was like: "I'm not talking about this right now, I'm on my way to visit my Oma."'

The nurse replied: 'Oh, well, I already spoke to your Oma, and she agreed.'

But Thursday wouldn't have allowed enough time for Stegemann's pastor to arrive, or her son – depriving her of her dying wishes to be surrounded by her loved ones and prayer.

Kranendonk said Thursday wasn't an option, so Friday was kept as the death date.
Stegemann was not imminently dying, so the only reason to fast-track the death date was to get it done before she changed her mind.

Kranendonk then went to the "care" home and demanded the euthanasia paperwork, but no paperwork was shared with her. She doesn't know if there was a valid signature or who the witnesses were.

She then spoke to her grandmother. Garfinkel explains:
Following the altercation with the manager, Kranendonk confronted her grandmother and explained what would be happening on Friday in vivid terms.

The conversation caused her to breakdown in tears and admit that she had made a mistake. 'I just kept saying there's no mistake, there's no mistake. You don't have to do this.

'The doctors are coming on Friday, and you just say no,' Kranendonk recalls pleading.

But it got to a point where Kranendonk didn't want to 'keep fighting MAiD, and lose sight of who I'm fighting for'.

Her grandmother was unwell, and confused, so she made the decision to just try and experience all the precious quality time she could have with Stegemann – while she still had a chance.

And crucially, she trusted the nurses to not take advantage of the ailing woman. 

Kranendonk said that both her and her grandmother were vulnerable and she decided to make the best of the situation. Garfinkel reports:

On Thursday, the pair danced together to traditional German Polka music and ate ice-cream in her room.

'We had the best day,' Kranendonk recalls, tearfully. 'I felt great leaving on Thursday.'

But she went home utterly confused. On the one hand, she was elated she had such a fantastic day with her grandmother.

But on the other hand, she couldn't bear the possibility of what might happen the next day.

'I was so split. Part of me was like, maybe it's not going to happen. And then there was this underlying feeling of, oh God, what if it does?'

Kranendonk has examined the reality and stated:

In hindsight, she felt like she was in an unworkable situation. She at once wanted the best for her grandmother and wanted to respect her autonomy, but was terribly concerned that she had never once heard her say, out loud and clearly: 'I want MAiD.'

'All I saw was her not understanding the process,' Kranendonk recalls.
Friday July 10. The day of death. Garfinkel reports
When Friday, July 10 arrived, everything felt rushed again. The family took Stegemann out into the residential home's garden to share strawberry ice-cream – her favourite – and the pastor arrived, who started a round of prayers.

'She's very confused at this point,' Kranendonk remembers.

At 9.30am – after 10 minutes of being outside – the MAiD nurse asked for the family to return indoors, despite the fact that they were told the doctor would not arrive until 11am.

The nurse said that she needed time to get the IV started, and Kranendonk remembers telling her forcefully that they were not finished having time together as a family.

'Well, how long do you need?' she claims the nurse said, rather dismissively, in response.

Once back inside the home, the nurse started the IV, Kranendonk alleges. According to Kranendonk, the doctor hadn't even arrived, and her grandmother was not asked if she gave consent for the procedure to begin.

The nurse struggled to insert the IV into Stegemann's right arm, and ended up piercing her repeatedly with the needle before attempting her left arm.

Kranendonk remembers in graphic detail the copious amount of blood, which made the whole procedure feel strangely unprofessional.

'She's asking us to hand her things, to flush out the needle. So we're now a part of this. She's asking us to grab things for her, and to hold things for her.

'This nurse is not wearing gloves. There's blood all over her hands, there's blood all over the place,' she says, horrified by the memory.

The doctor then entered the room and told Stegemann she was there to give her 'medicine', and asked if that was okay with her.

'My Oma is not moving. She doesn't open her eyes. She doesn't nod. She doesn't say anything, and the doctor just said: "Okay, well, I'm going to proceed."'

Within 10 minutes, Stegemann was pronounced dead. Due to how unresponsive she was, Kranendonk doesn't know if her grandmother died shortly before the MAiD, because of the MAiD, or whether she was just in deep prayer.

She says that no heartbeat was taken, before or after the procedure.
Did Brigitte Stegemann know what MAiD actually was? Kranendonk told Garinkel: 
'What was concerning, though, is that that morning, I was crying. My grandmother looked at me and said, "If you don't stop crying, I'm not going to sleep tonight." She said that to me on Friday morning.'
The article finishes with Kranendonk outlining some of the concerns with her grandmother's death:
She has subsequently learn't that nurses are strictly prohibited from pressuring a patient to pursue MAiD, and that all the correct paperwork for MAiD to take place must be submitted before a death date can be determined.

Stegemann's paperwork was completed after her death, her granddaughter claims.

'She did not consent the morning of the procedure,' Kranendonk says, steadfast in her conclusion that her grandmother was euthanised against her will.

She has consistently asked The Pearl to hand over her grandmother's medical records, but all of her requests have been refused, she says.

She regrets not applying for a legal injunction to prevent the MAiD from occurring, but she also didn't realise she had the right to ask for one at the time.

'I was flying blind,' she says. And crucially, her grandmother still needed medical attention in those final weeks.

'We live in Canada, where medical care is not always easy to get. She still needed medical care. I could not just scoop her up and bring her home,' she says.

She trusted the government, and the medical establishment, not to take advantage of her grandmother. In the months since July, that trust has completely shattered.

The article ends with Garinkel reporting that A spokesman for Belleville Police told the Daily Mail: 'This incident is currently open and under investigation with our Criminal Investigations Division. We are unable to provide any additional information at this time.'
If this was the only concerning story about Canada's euthanasia regime, then it would be tragic and worth investigating, but nonetheless a reality. But this is one of a massive number of concerning euthanasia stories in Canada and Canada's killing machine only continues to grow and speed up.

MAiD (euthanasia) should never be legal. To give medical professionals the right in law to kill their patients is lethal and not safe. One of the strongest messages from Kranendonk's experience is how the "MAiD team" appeared to be ideologically motivated.

Canada now has a small group of doctors and nurse practitioners who do a lot of killing. That small group has drank the kool-aid and are convinced that euthanasia has made them "angels of mercy."

The truth is that many of these medical professionals have become medical serial killers and the legalization of euthanasia has MAiD it possible.

Sadly, death cannot be reversed. Brigitte Stegemann cannot be brought back. Her real intentions and understanding will never be known and her death is one of many horrific Canadian euthanasia deaths.

Friday, September 18, 2026

They ended the life of a two-year old. I refuse to call that care.

This article was published by Kelsi Sheren on her substack on September 17, 2026.

By Kelsi Sheren

The first Dutch case under its expanded child life-termination framework should horrify us—not because the child wasn’t suffering, but because suffering became the justification for intentionally ending a life that could never consent.

I have covered euthanasia and MAiD for years.

I have read the legislation. The committee reports. The cases. The sanitized medical language. The phrases designed to make something irreversible sound clinical, controlled and humane.

I know what I am looking at and this one has deeply upset me, I am angry. The person at the centre of this case was not an adult making an informed decision about their own body.

This was a child. Not yet two years old.

A profoundly disabled child with catastrophic medical problems whose life was intentionally ended by adults and now, in September 2026, the Dutch committee responsible for reviewing the case has concluded that the physician acted with due care.

I keep coming back to the same question…..how the hell did we get here?

A child cannot consent to death, the entire modern argument for euthanasia is usually sold through the language of autonomy.

My body. My choice. My suffering. My decision.

You may disagree with me about euthanasia for competent adults. Fine, but that argument collapses here.

A two-year-old cannot understand death.

A two-year-old cannot understand euthanasia.

A two-year-old cannot weigh treatment options.

A two-year-old cannot give informed consent.

A two-year-old cannot make a voluntary and considered request to die.


The Dutch system recognizes that basic reality. Ordinary euthanasia requires such a request, which is why children this young fall under a separate framework allowing physicians, under certain circumstances, to intentionally terminate the lives of seriously ill children.

That distinction should stop every one of us cold because we are no longer talking about someone choosing death for themselves. We are talking about adults deciding that another human being’s suffering has reached a point at which deliberately ending that human being’s life is acceptable.

That is an entirely different ethical universe and yes, this child was terribly sick. I am not going to minimize what this family was facing.

The child was born at 26 weeks.

There was extensive brain damage, severe cerebral palsy, visual impairment, serious seizures that were extraordinarily difficult to control, swallowing problems, breathing problems and other severe complications. Doctors did not expect the child to survive into adulthood.

According to the committee record, the child was developmentally around six weeks old at nearly two years of age, had no verbal development and had only minimal ability to communicate.

That is devastating, I cannot imagine watching your child suffer like that, I cannot imagine being told there may be no cure coming. I am not interested in sitting comfortably behind a keyboard and calling desperate parents monsters. That is not my argument.

My argument is that compassion for suffering cannot mean eliminating the human being who is suffering, there is a difference and we are losing it.

Then I read what the doctors actually said, this is the part that made me even angrier.

The first independent physicians consulted did not simply rubber-stamp what happened. According to the committee’s own record, those doctors concluded that the child’s condition was irreversible—but that at that moment there was not continuous unbearable suffering and that reasonable alternatives still remained.

Those alternatives included palliative options and additional medications that might have controlled the seizures more effectively. The physician attempted the recommended medication. The child experienced additional side effects and treatment was stopped.

The parents did not want prolonged sedation that would eventually result in death without fluid or nutrition, and the treating physician did not view palliative sedation as a reasonable answer.

Then another physician outside the region was consulted. That doctor reached a different conclusion: that the suffering was unbearable and that there was no other reasonable way to relieve it and the procedure went ahead.

Read that again.

The initial independent medical opinions said reasonable options remained.

A later doctor disagreed, and the child died. You can dress that sequence in whatever bureaucratic language makes everyone more comfortable.

I am not comfortable. The rules weren’t even fully written and then we get to the part that almost reads like satire if the consequences weren’t so horrifying. The regulation governing children aged one through twelve did not yet contain its own due-care requirements.

The committee therefore relied on requirements originally written for newborns, together with criteria approved by the Dutch paediatric association in October 2024. There was also no guideline for carrying out the procedure.

The committee’s judgment records that the physician actually searched for a protocol and could not find one.

Stop there.

A country expanded a framework allowing intentional life termination in children between one and twelve. The first reported case occurs, a child dies and the official record says parts of the framework and implementation guidance still had not been written.

Yet we’re supposed to feel reassured by the word safeguards.

I don’t.

“Handled with due care”

The committee ultimately found that the physician had acted with due care. That phrase bothers me more than I can explain, because “due care” sounds comforting.

It sounds responsible, professional, measured, safe…. but the outcome remains exactly the same. A child who was alive became dead because adults intentionally caused that death. That is not the same thing as withdrawing futile treatment.

It is not the same thing as allowing the natural process of dying. t is not the same thing as treating pain aggressively while knowing a dying patient may pass. It is not the same thing as palliative sedation. Intent matters, words matter here.

The Dutch framework itself recognizes that: the objective of the intervention is to end life because the suffering has been judged hopeless and unbearable.

That distinction matters enormously to me. I believe medicine should treat suffering, that medicine should aggressively control pain. I believe families caring for profoundly disabled children deserve more resources than most governments will ever provide them.

Nursing, respite, palliative medicine, hospice, psychological support, specialists, equipmen and financial support. Everything and when treatment has truly failed and death is coming, medicine should make that death as peaceful and humane as humanly possible but there is a moral difference between accompanying somebody through death and intentionally causing it.

I refuse to erase that distinction. What upset me most is there is another sentence in the committee material that I haven’t been able to shake.

The committee wrote that:
“All facets of ‘being human’—regarding motor skills, behavior, and personality—were severely impaired and were not going to improve.”
Think for a second about that language.

Motor ability.

Behaviour.

Personality.

Developmental disability.

Communication.

Dependence.

Those things may be medically relevant when treating a person. Of course they are, but when the end result of an assessment can be intentional death, disabled people have every reason to ask where these judgments take us.

Human worth cannot become proportional to independence, humanity cannot depend on verbal communication. Dignity cannot depend on whether you can feed yourself. Your right to continue existing cannot depend on how “burdensome” your medical condition appears to somebody else.

That is the territory that terrifies me, this is why precedent matters here. The Netherlands expanded this particular framework in 2024 and officials estimated that no more than approximately five children a year might qualify.

This was the first reported case under that expansion and, at the time of the committee’s judgment, the only one.

Somebody will inevitably say:

It’s one case.

It was exceptional.

The child was extremely sick.

All of this may be true so I don’t need to exaggerate it. I’m not pretending thousands of children are suddenly going to die, but one case is enough to ask what principle has just been established.

A law changes then a framework is created, next the first case happens. A committee declares that it met the standard and that decision then becomes part of the guidance surrounding future cases. That not me making up some conspiracy, that’s just how precedent works.

My answer is still a hard, hard no.

I understand that people will read this case differently, some will believe the physician acted compassionately, cool. But I cannot. Some will believe the parents faced an unbearable situation and made the most merciful decision available to them.

I don’t need to hate those people to oppose what happened, I don’t need to call the doctor evil. My argument is bigger than one doctor or one family, I reject the philosophy that says there comes a point where intentional death becomes an acceptable medical response to human suffering and I reject it most agreesively when the person whose life is being ended can’t ask for it!

Care for the child, treat the seizures, control the pain, help them breathe, support the family, pour resources into their care and when death comes despite everything medicine can do, surround that child with comfort and love.

But please don’t tell me intentionally causing the death of this child is simply another form of health care, we have to stop with this nonsense.

Don’t clean it up with words like procedure. Don’t hide behind due care and don’t tell me autonomy justifies it when the tiny human being at the centre of the decision had none.

A two-year-old cannot choose to die by a doctors hands, so adults chose instead. That’s just the reality of what happened here. Then another group of adults reviewed their decision afterward and determined that the rules had been followed and I am supposed to find reassurance in that.

I don’t. I find it hyper disturbing. Why aren’t enough people saying something.

We need to hit the breaks hard. We are rationalizing kidding children, say what this is.

I believe future generations will look back at this era and ask how doctors became authorized to intentionally end human lives in the name of compassion. They will ask how suffering became confused with the value of the person suffering, and then they will ask, how young we were ultimately willing to go.

In the Netherlands, we now know at least part of that answer.

Not yet two years old and that should disturb every single one of us.

Tuesday, August 18, 2026

Family files euthanasia (MAiD) complaint to the Chief Coroner of Ontario.

Alex Schadenberg
Executive Director, Euthanasia Prevention Coalition

Brigitte with her grand daughter.
On July 22, 2026 I contacted Brigitte Stegemann's family and received permission to republish the facebook posting concerning the death of Brigitte.

Kelsi Sheren has confirmed that Brigitte was killed by euthanasia (MAiD) based on questionable competency and consent by Dr Catherine Louise Koester.

There were several issues that should be considered infractions of Canada's euthanasia (MAiD) law.

Sheren reported on August 17 that family has filed a complaint to the Office of the Chief Coroner of Ontario in the death of their grand-mother.

Sheren outlined the complaint to the Office of the Chief Coroner of Ontario:
Brigitte — GG’s granddaughter, namesake, twelve-year caregiver, Power of Attorney for personal care — has formally requested an investigation by the MAiD Death Review Team into the death of July 10 at The Pearl in Cannifton, Ontario, licensed to Pearl Care Homes Inc. and formerly E.J. McQuigge Lodge.

These are their reasons, below, along with the original email.

Capacity. Documented cognitive disorientation during the assessment, in which GG could not recall basic facts about her own family. You read what that looked like: the second-youngest of fourteen children telling the assessing physician she had no siblings, then breaking down in confusion, while her family corrected the majority of her answers out loud.

The Power of Attorney, bypassed. Staff initiated private MAiD discussions and completed and witnessed the application paperwork in secret, while the advocate was out of the country for ten days.

No final express consent. The procedure went ahead on the morning of July 10 while GG stayed completely silent and never gave the verbal confirmation the family had been promised, strictly and repeatedly, would be required.

They are asking the Chief Coroner to examine the attending clinician’s compliance, and the conduct of the home’s staff, under the Coroners Act and the Criminal Code.
Kelsi Sheren further explains what the complaint concerns:
Now put the three allegations against that MAID narrative. A capacity finding on a woman who couldn’t name her siblings. Paperwork the home’s manager filled out herself. A death that proceeded through silence.

The death certificate and its stated cause. Both eligibility assessments the law requires, and the identity of whoever performed the second one. The signed request, its date, its witness. The full medication administration record and any waiver of final consent, which remains the whole case: either the procedure went ahead without the express consent the law demands, or a waiver exists that nobody mentioned to the family, including while assuring them of the safeguard it would have cancelled.
This case will determine if Ontario's death system has any oversight. Sheren states:
The granddaughter asked the home for the records. She was refused, repeatedly.

GG told the people offering her death that her faith said no. Nine weeks later she had an appointment. When the last safeguard came she met it with silence, and the family who’d been promised silence would stop it watched it not stop.

Her granddaughter has now done every single thing this system asks of a family that believes something went wrong. Kept the records. Built the timeline. Filed with the coroner. Named the doctor.

What happens next isn’t a test of this family. It’s a test of whether Canadian oversight of assisted death can do anything at all when someone walks in with a timeline, a Power of Attorney, and a name.
Kelsi Sheren contacted Dr Catherine Louise Koester and The Pearl for their response and has received no response. 

If your family has experienced a MAiD death you believe was non-compliant or coerced, in Canada or elsewhere, contact me confidentially at coaching@kelsisheren.com. Anonymity is guaranteed unless you choose otherwise, and nothing you share is published without your consent.

Links to the articles on the death of Brigitte (GG) Stegemann
  • The family filed. Here's the name. Dr. Kate Koester (Link).
  • The last ten days of Brigitte "GG" Stegemann (Link).
  • Our Families Experience with Medical Assistance in Dying (Link).