Wednesday, October 1, 2025

Dementia patient died by euthanasia. The family made the request.

Alex Schadenberg
Executive Director, Euthanasia Prevention Coalition

Sharon Kirkey was published by the National Post on October 1, 2025 reporting that an Ontario dementia patient died by euthanasia (MAiD) even though the request was made by the family. Kirkey wrote:

A frail woman in her late 80s with dementia received MAID after a family member “brought forward” a request for an assisted death, a new report reveals.

The woman’s life was ended after a MAID provider deemed the woman had given her final expressed consent to proceed, based on her ability to repeat a question and squeeze the provider’s hand.

This case was featured in the recent report from the Ontario MAiD Death Review Committee (MDRC). Kirkey explains:

The case is among half a dozen flagged in the latest report from the Office of the Ontario Chief Coroner’s MAID Death Review Committee. Together they’re raising questions around how MAID is being approved for people with dementia, including whether people are receiving MAID without proper assessments to determine if they have the capacity to consent to death.

Dr Ramona Coelho
Dr Ramona Coelho, a family physician and a member of the MDRC told Kirkey:

“What really stuck out to me is that people with dementia are choosing MAID for feelings like loss of dignity, perceived burden, emotional distress and fear,”

“If MAID is not to be the path of least resistance, but really the choice, then when people are scared and they need care, they should be accessing that care,”

Kirkey reported that 103 people with dementia died by euthanasia in 2023/2024:

"According to the MAID death review committee’s newest report, Navigating MAID with Persons with Dementia, 103 assisted deaths were reported in Ontario in 2023 and 2024 where dementia was identified as the primary condition contributing to suffering. Those deaths represented  about one per cent of all MAID deaths over the same period.

Kirkey continued by further explaining the circumstances of the case:

Among the anonymized cases highlighted is that of Mrs. 6F, the woman in her late 80s diagnosed with moderately advanced dementia.

Nine months before accessing MAID, Mrs. 6F was admitted to hospital after falling several times at her retirement home. She needed help with most basic activities of daily living, according to the report, including supervision while eating. She had a tendency to overfill her spoon and choke.

“At one point during her admission, Mrs. 6F reportedly expressed a ‘wish to die’ to a family member,” the report reads. “This was communicated to her care team, who initiated a referral for MAID.”

“Mrs. 6F’s expression of a wish to die was interpreted by a family member as a potential request for MAID.”

After a discussion with a MAID provider, Mrs. 6F chose to move into long-term care, and decided not to pursue an assisted death.

However, four months after her transition to long-term care, “Mrs. 6F reportedly renewed her request for MAID” and the MAID process was navigated by a family member, the committee reported.

“At this point, Mrs. 6F was largely bedbound and experienced additional physical symptoms including dyspnea (shortness of breath) and pain.

“She also suffered from psychological and existential distress related to her increasing dependency and cognitive decline,” according to the report.

The MAID provider assessed her eligibility over a single interaction, and with a family member present.

In addition to her physical and functional decline, “the provider also noted that Mrs. 6F experienced ‘marked existential suffering’ and was ‘clear she did not want to continue to live as she (was).'”

There were communication challenges during the eligibility assessment. The provider said the process was “managed in a way that worked for her.” There was little documented details of her cognitive impairments like short-term memory loss, insight or judgement. Mrs. 6F tried to sign the consent form, but her signature was illegible. “A third-party signer, a member of the MAID provider’s clinical staff, was engaged,” according to the report.

MAID was scheduled for one week after two assessors determined Mrs. 6F met the eligibility criteria. “On the day of the provision, Mrs. 6F was reportedly overwhelmed by the presence of additional visitors,” the committee said. The extra visitors were asked to leave “to ensure a calm environment.

“Final express consent was determined based on Mrs. 6F’s ability to repeat the consent question and via squeezing the provider’s hand.”

While most committee members felt that Mrs. 6F “appeared to be able to communicate a choice (i.e. by agreeing or squeezing a hand)” others said communication via repeating a question “is not an indication of understanding or appreciating a healthcare decision,” particularly without supporting documentation of a person’s cognitive capabilities and decision-making.

Some members were also concerned about the reliance on a family member “to facilitate the MAID process, illustrating potential opportunity for undue influence,” according to the report.

“While (committee) members acknowledged that family members may have an increased role in assisting persons with dementia in navigating the MAID process,” the committee said, “MAID practitioners should prioritize direct engagement with the person requesting MAID to the greatest extent possible,” document their “own words and reasoning” wherever possible and evaluate “possible sources of external pressure.”

Concerns were also raised that Mrs. 6F’s overwhelmed response to having so many people in her room the day MAID was provided potentially signalled “her lack of understanding of the circumstances of the MAID provision.”

Kirkey outlines other cases in her article such as a man who had been living with Alzheimer’s disease for about 10 years was approved for MAID

Kirkey completed her article by stating:

The cases suggest “people are accepting very limited, and under the threshold, of what a normal capacity assessment would be, especially for this (dementia),” Coelho said.

But while some members said the threshold for determining capacity for MAID should be high, given the gravity of such a life-ending decision, others said it shouldn’t exceed the thresholds applied in other health-care circumstances.

Links to other articles concerning euthanasia and dementia (Articles Link).

5 comments:

gordon friesen said...

"while some members said the threshold for determining capacity for MAID should be high ... others said it shouldn’t exceed the thresholds applied in other health-care circumstances."

This quote basically says it all. The current doctrine is that death is a medical treatment (like any other). Consent procedures are designed to be as easy to satisfy as possible. And that is because medical care is assumed to be a good thing. This is the standard they now want to apply to MAID.

But that is not the end of it. We already have well established protocols, in the case of incapacity, for shared and substituted consent, in other life-critical decision-making. So why not MAID? This is clearly looming on the horizon.

Unless the medical status of MAID is challenged, execution of the incapable, by substituted consent, would seem logically inevitable.

Anonymous said...

This opens the door for the ultimate form of elder abuse - killing your parents or grandparents. Don't want the burden of a parent who's ill or has dementia? No problem...there's a doctor waiting to kill them. This also opens the door to people getting family members knocked off sooner (and legally) so they can get that inheritance earlier. Whatever happened to love?

Anonymous said...

I just losted my husband to dementia and i know that patients with dementia agree to almost anything asked of them. I do not believe they have the capacity to understand what they are actually agreeing to. God Bless them 🙏 the little darlings. My husband was only 59 when he was diagnosed, so sad.

Sarita Hoard said...

Death should never be allowed as a medical procedure. What ever happened to the do no harm oath that Dr's supposedly take.? Murder is the worst harm done to a human being. When did the definition change?My mother is dying of cancer, as a Christian,maid was offered her without it being asked. It stressed her out so much at a time when she needs comfort and help. In her and our eyes her life was just devalued as if she was as disposable trash. It was really upsetting.

Anonymous said...

The same thing happened to my mother. NO CONSENT was given from her.
A In-law who owed her quite a bit of money gathered several greedy family members in a room at the hospital (including Drs.) and asked for a show of hands of who wanted her gone. The majority won and she was given an overdose of morphine. There is no justice for the elderly.