Right
Honourable Justin Trudeau
Prime
Minister of Canada
November
17 2015
“Abandoned, Neglected, brokenhearted I am
left crying myself to sleep” - What the ruling of the Supreme Court of Canada
in the Carter case has meant to me and many other Canadians.”
Dear
Prime Minister
When
I was a child my family placed me in a “home” for kids like me – I had
disabilities because of cerebral palsy. Over the course of my six years stay I
felt totally abandoned by my family. One question would often fill my thoughts,
“does anyone really care?” In the wake of the Supreme Court decision in Carter,
decriminalizing euthanasia and physician assisted suicide, I feel that same
abandonment and again the question circles my mind after all these years –
“does anyone really care?”
I
have been abandoned by several key sectors of society - among these are, the Canadian Supreme Court,
the Canadian Government, Canadian Law, the Canadian Medical Association, the
Church in Canada and the Canadian Media.
You
may ask why a sense of abandonment and this would be my answer. These sectors were my life supports on
which, I knew as a Canadian living with disabilities, I could depend upon to
look after me, uphold my rights, to life, to support, care and protection. Now I fear that my "life supports" have been "turned off."
Now
with the Supreme Court decision in Carter, I have lost my confidence in these
institutions to protect me. I was told recently, “Steven you should not go to
the doctor alone – make sure you have someone to go with you.” So what am I
left to do – who will hold my hand? The sense of abandonment, my sense of grief
and disappointment is so palpable it is like a yoke on my shoulders. Where do I
go now, to whom do I speak?
I
want to live even though some people may not find my life worth living. I am
grateful to all of the key sectors that I mentioned for the life I have had so
far. But when the law allows physicians to kill patients and those with
consciences are forced to kill or pressured out of medicine. When people who
want to kill themselves are exulted in the media to the point where we change
the law and the voice of those of us who wish to live is disregarded and
silenced – what am I to think?
Over
the last 25 years, I have spoken about three key issues facing people with
disabilities, equality, value and acceptance. I have tried to communicate to all Canadians that these three things
must be protected under Canadian law to keep us all safe. People like me have
always known that we were just tolerated, not really accepted, had no value and
no equality in the eyes of many Canadians. Society built us ramps to buildings
but not to Canadian hearts.
The
Supreme Court judgement, added to the betrayal and neutrality of key sectors of
society that has reinforced the concept of out
of sight, out of mind, and now out
of the way!
That
is why I feel so deeply abandoned because the Carter decision proves I have no
equality no value or acceptance. If my
choice to live can be circumvented, in my best interests of course - where is
my autonomy? Who gave anyone the right to take away my autonomy?Choices are
made for me every day. Where I may live, how much money I receive and now
finally, with these changes, when I will die.
They
will provide various reasons, such as economics, dependency, pain and suffering
or quality of life and then they will decide. Society will decide for me, based
on what it thinks not what I think. After all Canadian society knows what is
best for me – who would want to live like Steven anyway. I shout but no one
wants to hear. The Carter ruling establishes two types of Canadians, those upon
whom we confer equality, value and acceptance and those, like me, to whom they
will be withheld.
There
is great talk about being more inclusive, a kinder and gentler Canada – is that
just rhetoric – or does that really include the elderly, disabled the
marginalized? Or have we become so cold that we will no longer provide the
essentials of human life, the supports needed like health care and financial
aid to those who require such assistance. I feel as though I need to apologize
for being born with a disability, as though somehow it is my fault.
Someone
recently said that because the government is our provider the key sectors of
society do not want to look after us anymore. Why give him healthcare? Why provide
for or assist him we certainly do not want to extend his future? Is this
because I am different, because I need a hand, a lift up?
What
we are about to do, allowing physicians to kill patients or helping them to
commit suicide, is so dangerous, so horrific, so detrimental to Canadian
values.
It
is said that how a nation treats its most vulnerable is the measure of that
nation. Please speak up for my right to
live. Our future as Canadians must include the vulnerable and marginalized. As
a man living with disabilities I have no voice, and unless I want to kill
myself I am closed out of Canadian media. Please ensure that all Canadians have a future – protect us from those
doctors who will kill us, protect us from the media which asks you who would want
to live like them? Defend us from the law which has been turned upside down and
from government which threatens refusal to protect our lives.
Whatever
happened to Canada the good? I am on a ledge right now will Canada pull me back
or push me off?
Forever
committed to making a stronger and more inclusive Canada and an advocate for
the marginalized.
Yours
sincerely,
Steven
Passmore
404- 165
Queen Street South
Hamilton,
Ontario L8P
4R3
(905) 529-9689
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